.Thursday, February 15, 2007 ' 7:23 PM ♥
eh woman, you targeting me is it?
Well, I wouldn't say you're wrong.
Neither would I say you're right either.
To be honest with you..
none of us here has the exact answer.
okay, I'm gonna preach =x
Put on your seat belt.
Love is a highly complex issue in life.
For all you know, we human aren't perfect.
Neither you nor I, inclusive of the person
we hold dearly in our hearts, isn't it?
Mistakes upon mistakes we make.
We sought forgiveness in almost every area.
How much courage do one need..
to humble himself/herself and acknowledge
the mistake they have committed?
It all voices down to just one word..
otherwise known as FORGIVENESS.
Soft hearted-ness is installed in a girl's heart..
each time she fell deeply in love with a guy.
Because love bears all things, love forgives.
Despite of the many faults and wrongs
we receive in our lives..
Forgiveness is the antidote to resentment.
Don't you agree with me too?
If giving up is the only solution to the hurt we receive.
Then I would totally agree with you.
And would advice anyone else to give up
on the love that was being built,
the foundation that was laid.
The love that they shared, the precious
memories that belongs to them.
True enough, it's never easy to maintain a relationship.
It really takes two hands to clap.
For all I know, if either one isn't ready
for a relationship, hurts tend to fall in somehow.
All I can say is, love really bears all thing.
Other than God's own unconditioned love..
I've always believed that I, too, can
provide my loved one with an unconditioned love.
Everyone deserves forgiveness, don't they?
Yes, it's true that I was badly hurt.
Still hurting, but recovering.
But I strongly believe that understanding towards
one another in a relationship plays a major role somehow.
and now you got it right:
**u gotta find sum1 who's
walking beside you
being with u.
holding ur hand.
and if u're falling
he'll fall with u.
and he'll say
"im here with u**
That particular person HAS to be there..
to support and be depended on.
When one is down, the other has to support.
When one is crushing, the other has to protect.
When one is crying, the other dries the tears.
These are form of support for one another.
Even friends know how to be there for their friends.
Even friends know that despite of all the hurts they
have inflicted on them, they still accepts them.
True friendship comes true understanding of each other.
You'd want to forgive them of the hurt that they
have placed on you, so that you can move on with them.
You'd help them find back their joy..
you won't cast them alone.
You'd help them find they way back home..
you won't leave them alone.
You'd believe in them when they are lost..
you won't give up on them.
Even friends know all these..
let alone someone who you love dearly.
Someone who understands love.
Not saying that you do not understand love.
You understood love when you understood
the meaning of true friendship.
Isn't it so true?
True happiness abounds when love is restored.
Once you place your trust in God (at least for me),
things will HAVE TO work out well.
But think again..
if a man once hurt you, you left him.
When he comes back, he's changed.
Cos he's changed for you.
Would you love him still?
Or heartlessly cast him away and say..
"you once hurt me, I'm not forgiving you."
Put yourself in their shoes.
You hurt a man, he left you.
When you changed for him already..
because you know.. you were utterly wrong.
You went back to him to seek forgiveness
as well as reconciliation..
Would you rather hear him say,
"I've forgiven you, please come back."
Or would you rather hear him say,
"so what if you've changed? it's a fact that
you once hurt me. I'm not forgiving, get
out of my life."
When you've finally found a man you'd love.
It would naturally take all your effort
to retain and gain back this guy.
Because to you, he is the man worthy of your love.
In your eyes, he's the best that you could ever have.
Yes you may find someone even better..
richer, more handsome, more gentle..
almost a 100% perfect gentleman.
But, would you love this gentleman more
than you would love the one you love or used to love?
Is there a guarantee??
You might say, "it's a choice. you can choose to love
this gentleman more!"
YES! INDEED!
If you're able to manipulate your heart, you can.
For I'm sure, once you've fallen deeply in love.
I can love another man.
But never as much as the one I once truly love deeply.
It would then be a regret for the rest of your life.
Somehow, there is a hope in our heart..
That one day this person would come back for you.
And love you as much as you love them.
This person will then cherish you even more.
This person will protect just as much you've protected him.
I have this in my heart.
Because I trust this man whom I love.
It's our understanding and trust that was built
on our foundation of love.
He'll come back to me.
When he returns, I'm very sure..
I can bully him all that I want, he won't fight back.
*laughs*
Because when he returns, he'd know how much
I've loved him despite of all the hurts.
He chose to let me go now because he wouldn't
want to see me keep on hurting with him.
He is not selfish in this manner.
Though it hurts when he let me go.
But come to think of it, isn't it better?
I can take a breather off my hurts..
while being very sure that he'd return to my side.
In fact, this is what I've learnt..
words and debates can never out win
true understanding and trust between 2 person.
Prove me wrong.
Don't be afraid to share when you faces problems.
Be it, relationship or any other.
Because you would receive greater advice..
from someone who has gone thru it and..
have handled it well at the end.
And, don't think so lowly of yourself.
You never know when your words and helps
could actually lift someone up.
Bottom line: There is no perfect answer and solution.
thanks for being here for me.
I'm utterly grateful.
This is what I meant by true friendship.
When you understand each other.
Wanting to lift one another up
when one is utterly down.
Not giving up on me when I've
disappoint you with my unstable decisions.
I'm recovering, really.
Thanks for wanting to protect me.
You've protected me well enough.
It's my turn to protect myself.
Aries has to learn to grow up.
I'm not being naive haha really.
But I can't explain why and how..
to why I trust this man so much.
It's the understanding I have towards him.
Really, you'll understand.. one day.
@}-aRiEs-{@
